Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Choosing a Date Or Lover - Things to Look Out For

Three tips for choosing the right date:

1.Start the relationship as friends first and then grow it into a relationship. This is often the best way to start a relationship, because you get to know and understand each other quickly and more easily as friends, more than when you start your relationship off immediately with dating. Friendship makes you bond more easily and quickly.

2.Choose a partner that you cannot live without and not one that you can live without:That is,he or she must be an individual that is very important to your day to day activity as in, he or she is a motivational factor or a stimulant that you just must have to keep on going despite the odds and obstacles that may present them selfs before you, once you think of he or she you are up and running again, in other words he/she is a driving factor in your life.

3.Trust and truthfulness: Many relationships are built on falsehood that is, either the man or woman playing the other or even both playing each other, any relationship that is to last long and that is going to stand the test of time must be built on trust and truthfulness at all time no matter the circumstance.

Both parties must not harbor any secret either in the past or in the future,any couple that is living in holy matrimony and is harboring secrets from each other will always have problem in there marriage because at one point in time secrets have a tendency to leak out and surface eventually. If you want to choose the right date or lover you must look out for trust and truth in him/her before agreeing to start a relationship with him/her.

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