Thursday, June 21, 2007

Successful Dating Tips Fro Blacks

  1. Be yourself, and be honest.
    If you are going to meet someone, it is better be yourself, and not someone you are not. You will look unnatural. Go to a place you feel comfortable and where you can be yourself. In the long run it will be very disapointing to the other side to find out that you are not the person they thought you were.

  1. When you first meet your potential date, try smiling, because you don't even know how much a persons psychology gets positive when someone is smiling at them. Never underestimate a good nice smile. It will give you a good start and you will be already a positive person at the beginning You better be yourself, and not some other people you are not. Trying to be someone you are not will look unnatural. Also go to a place you feel comfortable and will allow you to be yourself. Also make sure this place is comfort for the other side too.
  2. Dress in an appropriate way, and fit your clothes to the place you are going. If you ar going to a dance party, you can dress in bright colored clothes, not in a suit. A suit would be suitable for some high level place. For a coffee shop dress casual, Don't hide yourself behind the clothes you dress in order to disguise yourself, but dress appropriately..
  3. A touch is a clear method to show someone you are interested in them but use it in the correct way. If the other side is touching your hand gently, don't panic, and don't start thinking, yes the are mine etc, try to go with the flow, and give them the gentle touch they he would expect. Of course it could lead to a bad situation, like if you touch someone and they do not respond like for instance your hand is removed. , don't give up on this, they may not be ready just yet. When they are ready they will touch you and make the first move.she will make the touch. Try using this at the right time, for example if you are walking on the beach, and they are getting closer to you, but not if you are sitting in a restaurent and eating, this is not the right time.
  4. A look is a powerful tool to show the other person that they are amazing, and that you can look at them all day. Looking on some one while they are quiet for more then a few seconds, will make the other side ask "why are they looking at me like this? ", and you should say something like, you are beautiful and I enjoy to looking at you. Don't be shy, this is not the time.
  5. Always be intersted in what the other side is saying, don't just hear, but listen, ask simple and complicated questions, show them that you are interested. Also tell the other side how nice it is to meet a person like them.
  6. Do not just talk about yourself it is very important to be outgoing and friendly.
  7. As a last tip, if you really do not want to see this person again then make it quiet clear, it is better to do it at very begining and not to draw it out longer than necessary.

Good Luck in your date.

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