First Dating of Afro American Teen Agers

You and someone of the opposite sex are ready to meet one another for the first time, you are both interested in each other at this stage, and this first meeting will be the stepping stone for the continuance of your relationship. The time and the place are a very important thing to set, not forgetting how you set up this meeting.

It is important to be polite and not demanding " would you like to go out with me ? if the feedback is positive then politly ask them where they would like to meet and if they ask you to suggest a place then suggest it in a way that they can change it or confirm it.

An answer such as "it will be fine", or "see you there" are very good, but you must ask them so the reciever wil be able to change the meeting date, or time or even refuse in a nice and polite way - don't set the time and place by yourself matter of factly, it is much too aggressive.

The first meeting will give both sides the chance to get to know the other. The first impression the other is the most important one, because even if you are not aware of it the brain registers the first meeting and nearly never forgets that moment or in the very least special things that happened at it. The meeting place should be a place that you will both feel comfortable and where you can talk to each other without a lot of background noise. A coffee bar or restaurant is the ideal place. Pay attention to what the other side are saying and look at him or her directly into the eyes – it is best to sit opposite them, dont forget you are not at home so sit in a way that is comfortable for you but not too casual as also body language is also a vital part of the first impression.

The day before the date it is important to call the other side to check the meeting is still on. Another important thing is not to be late so get ready for the date and set out earlier than you anticipated it is better to arrive early than to arrive late, however not too early you dont want to seem over keen.

Depending on what you are looking for in a relationship it is not really recommended to have sexual activity on your first date. This can happen however if both sides are very open minded and are extremely attracted to each other. To be on the safe side for any date take with you condoms or any other contraception. What you wear, the clothes, shoes, glasses is set in the other persons mind when first seeing you, dress appropriately for a first date for example if you know you are only going to a coffee house then dont wear an evening dress or if you are going to a classy restaurant dont wear jeans. – Wearing something comfortable yet appropriate is important, dont every overdress or for that matter underdress.

IF you are a women and looking for a series relationship dont get dressed in revealing clothes such as a mini skirt and very low cut top as this can give the wrong impression.

And now all we have left to say is have a good luck.